NEW CLASS STARTS SEPTEMBER 18th
Dear Erotic Creature,
I see you & I know you want more.
More connection, more expression, more truth, creativity... sex... love.
Let's be real, you want more of everything.
A deeper, richer life with more meaningful connections and experiences.
I'm right there with you. I've been craving this too, so I dreamt up this unexpected place to have a little more of the good stuff.
I NEED YOU TO KNOW SOMETHING RIGHT AT THE TOP:
In Embody Erotica, you will write, but this is not a writing class.
This wasn't designed for writers. This was created for women. I've served moms, CEO'S, coaches, creatives, healers, married women, single women, straight, queer, goddesses, badasses... You get the vibe.
There is no traditional writing instruction, critique, editing, or expectation that what you create is ‘good.' The deeper expectation is that you come willing to play & you will be skillfully guided each step of the way.
This is a space to explore what happens when you stop trying to write well and start letting yourself say what truly turns you on.
And the best part: you don't even need to know what that is right now!
It will be uncovered, and there is a very high chance you will surprise the hell out of yourself as you do.
Are you ready? Let's go!
Your class ignited something inside me, and it’s almost like I found part of me I had lost.
Every womAn needs to take this class.
—Camila
This class goes way beyond writing, and it’s so much fun!
I came in with a critical voice, not thinking that I was a good writer, and I’m leaving with so much permission to be me and feeling appreciated for my unique style.
I’ve had breakthroughs in my communication and in my relationship because of the safety I’ve felt here to express.
—SHANNON P.
I'm curious... have you ever felt...
UNINSPIRED
You used to write, paint, dance, or make things just for the joy of it, but somewhere along the way, creativity became one more thing you don't have time for.
SILENTLY HUNGRY
You want more sex than you are having, but you burn in silence for it, hoping and waiting for the other person to initiate it.
BUSY
You want something new and adventurous, but you are busy, stretched thin, and have a hard time making time for things that are just for enjoyment.
FILTERED
There’s a whole side of you that wants to be seen, but you're afraid that if you show it, you’ll be judged or rejected.
DOWNPLAYED
You have a connection with your sexuality, but at times downplay it or keep it hidden to feel safe.
FROZEN
You freeze when your partner asks what you want during sex, but you actually know exactly what you like.
I started this class feeling a bit shy and disconnected from my sensuality...
By the last class, I was attuned to my sexuality and open to new possibilities & having new experiences.
Anita, you helped me tap into my curiosity in exploring and communicating with my partner, and it opened up so much between us.
—ClaRA
For years, when I would search for audio erotica to listen to,
I kept noticing the same
thing about the recordings…
They felt performative.
I was consciously stepping away from "performing" in sex and was struggling to find anything truly authentic to listen to.
Personally, I don't want to hear makeout sounds on a recording. I don't need the British accent to think it's hot. I was turned off by all the heavy breathing and the slew of additional breathy sounds.
At some point, I stopped searching because I felt frustrated, but I also never found what I was looking for.
So I created it.
I felt so much permission and safety in your container.
Your desire to connect women to their own desires is creating a brand new space. This is what women-led desire feels like, and it’s so refreshing and beautiful.
—JULES
This class reminded me how important this is in my life and in the world... bringing the female voice forward.
It's time, it's important, and it's much needed.
—Chantal
EROTICA ISN'T JUST ABOUT FANTASY, SEX, AND DESIRE.
The stories we keep. The ones you've told, and the ones that have yet to see the light of day.
You have stories that will break me. Stories that will turn me on, make me blush, make me cry, make me beg to hear you speak it one more time.
Whether you explore through a character or your own experiences, you will be ignited.
EROTICA IS THE LANGUAGE OF WOMEN.
EROTIC WRITING IS AN OPPORTUNITY
for you to know a part of yourself more deeply, see yourself more clearly, and embody your sexual power in an incredibly unique way, through your creativity and your voice.
This class was so illuminating.
Not only did it help me with intimacy in my marriage, I also had a massive opening around the expression of my sexual desire.
It happened immediately in the first session after I read my writing. I released terror, and it felt like my creative center got blasted open. I could share my desires so much more freely after that.
—MELISSA K.
THE GOOD NEWS
Having what you want starts inside of you.
Your desires, your longings, and your vision for the life and sex you want generate turn-on and aliveness in you.
YOUR VOICE is the instrument
that brings it into reality.
THE HARD TRUTH
Most of us weren't encouraged to know what we want. We were conditioned to be pleasing.
For most, knowing what you want, asking for it, and having it needs to be learned and practiced.
It needs to be EMBODIED
Writing can be such a solitary creative endeavor, or when it’s done in a group, there can often be comparison.
What I really appreciated about this class is that everyone’s style and voice are so wildly different, beautiful, and craved by each of us. Everyone got to fully express themselves, and we were all celebrated for what we wrote.
—SHONA
SEX IS A CREATIVE PROCESS
We live in an extremely goal-oriented culture that values productivity over pleasure, and yet real pleasure is found in the slower places.
What if the sex you were having didn't have an aim, but rather opened up more curiosity and exploration in each moment? How could that serve you and your senses?
I could ask the same of your art-making. What if it didn't have to be "good" but instead the value was placed on your engagement with and the enjoyment of the process of creating? What if tapping into the inherent healing nature of making art was simpler than you think?
In EMBODY EROTICA, we allow the two to meld, and you begin to see sex as an unfolding creative process, a type of improvised, in-the-moment art. And you sense the creative process as a source of turn-on and aliveness. They feed each other perfectly.
DIRTY SEXY HEALING LIVES AT THE INTERSECTION OF CREATIVE AND SEXUAL EXPRESSION.
The expression of my sexuality and desire has become like a big juicy rose exploding.
I highly recommend this class to everyone on the planet.
—Melissa K.
Embody Erotica pressed up against my edges in the BEST way.
This class has been a safe place to playfully grow into a new sense of freedom and liberation in owning and claiming my desires.
—Cara M.
Every time I do this class, more of myself is revealed to me.
I have such a better understanding of what I like and what my flavor is.”
—Piney
“I've always felt very powerful in my sexuality, but haven’t had any spaces, outside of sex, to freely feel it.
This has been very liberating.”
—Camila
WHAT I SEE IN THE WORLD
ALTERED
When dress-up, role-play, and being "someone else" are suggested tools for having the sex you want, there’s rarely an understanding of a woman’s inherent erotic nature, which doesn’t require a costume… or a mask!
UNREALISTIC
In a culture where we are bombarded with images of young women’s bodies and unrealistic photoshopped beauty standards, rarely do we see women who look like us and exemplify a deeper essence of eroticism we’re longing to embody.
PURSUED
When we're told that men are the pursuers and desire is theirs to generate, rarely do we recognize the invisible force underneath every pursuit: the woman's own erotic magnetism, like a beacon summoning him to her.
PLEASING
When women are conditioned to be pleasing and an accessory to men’s lives, visions, and sex lives, rarely do we see a woman dripping with so much turn-on that we clearly understand that the partnership is, without a doubt, being led by the woman’s desire.
in the world of DIRTY SEXY HEALING
WE TURN INWARD AND CREATE FROM DESIRE
WHAT YOU WANT
Your connection to your authentic sexual expression doesn’t require you to be anything other than WHO YOU ACTUALLY ARE, to want exactly what you want, and become the woman who can have it... all!
HOW IT FEELS
Your sexuality is so much deeper than sexy lingerie. It’s a felt experience, a creative exploration, not a visual show. You’ll come to understand that fulfilling sex happens when you slow down and shift your focus away from “how it looks” and move toward HOW IT FEELS.
THE SOURCE
Your turn-on was never his to give you. It lives in your body. This is its place of origin. He is only ever responding to it, whether he knows it or not. WHEN YOU LEARN TO IGNITE AND OWN THIS POWER on your own terms, you stop waiting to be pursued and start recognizing that YOU ARE THE SOURCE.
RECIPE FOR POWER
Your connection to your sexuality, your desires, and YOUR VOICE is a RITE OF PASSAGE and a RECIPE FOR POWER. When you come into right relationship with what you truly want, you start to evoke a different type of response.
Your inner empowerment shifts your outer experiencE
includes
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Five weeks of 2-hour group sessions
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6th-week bonus session | DEEP Writing Format
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Class sizes of 4-8 women
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Personalized erotic experiments
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Erotic resource video library
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Group thread for connection between calls
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Optional one-on-one coaching with Anita - add-on
Next 6-week class
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 18th
10:30a - 12:30p PT / 1:30p - 3:30p ET
ONLINE
$525
You must be 18+ to take this class. To honor privacy, calls are not recorded.
This highly-interactive class, requires that your camera is turned on. No exceptions.
See full Terms & Conditions on the checkout page
YOUR PLEASURE PASS
You really are magic, Anita.
You gave me permission to express places that I thought were closed off.
Your class allows expression to move towards reality through writing it, speaking it, sharing it, and getting feedback from it.
—MANDI
Anita, You are a master key - the unlocker of repressed erotic energies.
—MUNA
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTION #1
WTF does this have to do with Erotic Writing?!
EVERYTHING
EMBODY EROTICA
is a safe space to practice
SPEAKING
highly sensational,
sexually-charged
content,
SO
that when you are in
HIGH-SENSATION
OR
sexually-charged
situations
YOU HAVE MORE ACCESS TO
YOUR VOICE
In the very first class I took back my voice in a way that I hadn't before.
This new embodiment of my own voice is showing up in all these different aspects of my life.
—KAT
YOUR VOICE IS A SUPERPOWER
I’m Anita, and I started exploring my sexuality in an intentional way in 2013. After almost a decade without sex (due to trauma and a massive need to protect), I started opening up again, and my sexual journey has been one of the most enlivening, growth-promoting, and rewarding experiences of my life, so much so that I built an entire business to contribute to the opening of yours.
I started writing erotica in 2017, and I had a natural, unfiltered knack for the genre. I would send my stories in voice notes to friends, and sometimes their boyfriends too… by request and with consent of course:) The feedback I got was that people were getting turned on, and I liked it!
I used my erotic stories to connect with men and open up conversations about what we both liked, wanted, and knew about ourselves. This practice created a ton of connection, play, and anticipation. It was an avenue for me to slow things down, get to know someone before engaging sexually, and ultimately, it had me feel more safe, which is something I deeply needed, and honestly, still need.
I dove into exploratory education related to embodied sexual practices, man/woman dynamics, and desire studies. I went from someone who couldn’t tell you what I wanted or needed, into a woman who knows and asks for what she wants, a woman who understands the power of energetics and takes responsibility for the closures in myself, when the men in my life are responding less than desirably toward me.
I've also had the pleasure of having a lot more sex & the best sex of my life, so far. It just keeps getting better, and I honestly had no idea that it was possible for me.
I'm actively working on my relationship with the masculine because I want more men in my life & healthier and more fulfilling relationships with them. Through experiential practices, I’ve come to understand men much more than I ever had, and I’m discovering new ways to bring out their brilliance.
My ability to articulate what I want, ask for it, and use my voice to make adjustments so they really get it has made all the difference in my relationships with men. This is one of the many things I teach about in my containers.
I am living proof that closures can open, you can heal from trauma, and more pleasure and enjoyment are just an ask away… most of the time!
I can’t wait to work with you. Step forward when you are ready to feel more, have more, and know parts of yourself that you have not let be see, until now.
My work is grounded in over two decades of study and lived practice. I am a multidisciplinary artist and professional life coach guiding clients utilizing Spiritual Psychology and Somatic Healing Work. I support a small number of 1:1 clients each year who want to have a more expressed life, and develop a more loving relationship with themselves. My favorite focus is supporting clients in following their heart's desires, to do what they want with their life.
I am a graduate of The University of Santa Monica’s Spiritual Psychology program (2005) with an emphasis in Consciousness, Health & Healing (2012), as well as advanced coaching programs devoted to somatics, the practice & research of sex, desire, communication, and man/woman dynamics.
I asked myself, how do I heal sexual trauma?
and I just heard this whisper… pleasure.
I had no concept that I could heal in this way, but now I’m seeing how possible it is to do that.
—Participant
This is the third time taking this class, and I can’t recommend it enough. It’s intimate, it’s sexy, it’s tender, and above all, it’s so much fun.
Writing erotica cracked something open in me, a doorway to desire, turn-on, to a pulse of aliveness I didn’t expect. It’s connected me to something deeper, something deliciously real.
—Tara
THIS SPACE WAS CREATED FOR...
YOUR CREATIVITY
Engage with your expression in a way that evokes a sense of freedom and confidence as you stop listening to the inner critic and start enjoying the creative process.
Real-life example: A woman who hates writing comes to an intro class and decides to continue with Embody Erotica. She's a photographer, hasn’t touched her camera in months. She starts writing erotica, feels herself switch back on, and suddenly wants to make images again. Btw, she now also publishes her writing on Substack.
YOUR NOURISHMENT
Experience the nourishment of genuine sisterhood beyond likes, texts, and surface-level conversations, among women who are hungry for depth, honesty, and real connection, just like you.
My first-ever class was a group of three women + me writing for a year together! I have a second group that just wants to stay connected. We write every other week for the past 9 months. They stay for the sisterhood... and of course, for the aliveness of talking about sex each week.
YOUR VOICE
Develop an empowered connection with your voice through the practice of speaking sexually charged content so that when you are in sexually charged situations, you can more readily use your voice.
A lot of women can journal privately. Reading something erotic aloud is a different practice entirely because now your nervous system has to survive being witnessed, and as scary and edgy as that is, we both know you deeply desire to be seen in your depth. This class is a straight-up embodiment practice to get comfortable with the most deliciously obscene sentences coming through your very own voice. It is strangely enlivening & wildly freeing.
YOUR TRUTH
Become someone who can express what's true inside you, whether that's on the blank page, in the bedroom, or in your everyday life.
You'd be amazed at how many women say to me, “I could NEVER read something like this out loud”. And yet, when you do it, you survive; you get witnessed instead of shamed, and realize you can tolerate a much bigger amount of visibility than you thought. Then you naturally want to share more of yourself.
YOUR FLAVOR
Uncover your unique erotic flavor and cultivate a relationship with your sexuality that feels safe, embodied, and unapologetically yours.
One story of many: A woman enters my class, having been told so many times to be more quiet, that she's "too much". 9 times out of 10 a woman who has been told to tone it down over and over has a whole lotta untapped and unexpressed power. When a woman like this starts to write, she pours it on to the page. When she speaks, everyone's temperature rises, all by sharing her tatalizing freakish ways. I don't know why women like what they like, but I do know that when they get to be seen and celebrated in whatever it is that they are into, they blossom and start to go for more of what they want.
YOUR TURN ON
Discover what genuinely turns you on and learn to express your desires with clarity and confidence.
Do you realize that there are so many ways, besides words, to express your desires? I coached a woman into experimental play with a partner that required no words at all, but a lot more sex... because this is what turned her on - finding ways to play and communicate her desires, by not speaking them. How hot is that?! When you find out what turns you on and are willing to reveal it, everyone wins.
I’ve been wanting to have an experience like this with other women because historically I don’t talk about sex with my friends.
I’m grateful to have a space to be able to say all of these things out loud while being in connection. It has felt generative to be so open and honest.
—ALLISON
This class has been a through line in me coming back to myself and I’ve really needed it, like a life preserver…
to remember that I have sensuality inside of me, and eroticism, and a body, and love, and all the things that make me feel that life is worth living.
—SARAH V.
includes
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Five weeks of 2-hour group sessions
-
6th-week bonus session | DEEP Writing Format
-
Class sizes of 4-8 women
-
Personalized erotic experiments
-
Erotic resource video library
-
Group thread for connection between calls
-
Optional one-on-one coaching with Anita - add-on
Next 6-week class
FRIDAY, SEPT 18th
10:30a - 12:30p PT / 1:30p - 4:30p ET
ONLINE
$525
YOUR PLEASURE PASS
In the very first class, my fear became my freedom.
—Mandi
Do you want to surprise the hell out of yourself? Take this class!
—September
This class is a shame composting machine.
—Katie
It awakened something in me that had been quietly waiting to breathe.
The power of words.
I rediscovered a part of myself that felt radiant, youthful, and deeply alive.
Desire became more than a feeling; it became a creative force, opening doors to authenticity, vulnerability, and beauty I hadn't known I was missing.
Anita’s erotic writing class belongs beside self-pleasure as one of the most transformative gifts you can give yourself.
—Blue Monté
OUR SEVEN WEEKS TOGETHER
Week 1 - Friction | Craving & Connection
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Introductions, Guidelines, and Creating Safety
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To Pen Name or Not to Pen Name?
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First Entry Points to Writing
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The Art of Giving and Receiving Reflections
🪭 LEAVE FEELING connected, and having written your first piece
Week 2 - Spark | IdeaS down into the Body
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Movement embodiment: how it feels vs. how it looks
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Connecting Heart, Mind, and Body in Story
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Writing from the Sensation of the Body vs. The Thoughts of the Mind
🪭 LEAVE KNOWING that your connection to your body informs your erotic voice
Week 3 - IGNITE | THE Edge of Possibility
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Vocal Embodiment and Transmission
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Slow Down to Feel More
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The Vulnerable Art of Wanting
🪭 LEAVE UNDERSTANDING that how you speak impacts how much you can be felt
Week 4 - The Bloom | Burning Bright
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Experiments of the Senses
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Finding Freedom in Play
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Unfiltered Expression: Just for the Fun of it!
🪭 LEAVE WITH A SENSE of lightness as you choose an erotic experiment
Week 5 - The Ember | The Afterglow
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Honoring the Still, Small Voice
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Welcoming Inspiration as a Guide
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Being Seen & Seeing Clearly
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Celebration of Openings - Closing Ceremony
🪭 LEAVE FEELING seen, heard, and loved exactly as you are
Week 6 BONUS: STOKE | DEEP Membership
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First Session Free
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Regular Creative Writing Space
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Sharing and Reflections in small groups
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Optional Silent Breakout Rooms for Focus
🪭 LEAVE KNOWING whether or not DEEP is the right next step for you
EMBODY EROTICA
is a 6-week live practice in erotic imagination, creative expression, and being witnessed—using guided free-writing, sharing, and supportive feedback.
This class is highly structured and expertly guided, so that you can experience ease, exploration, and fun.
I'm building a culture of women supporting each other,
To witness the transformation in myself and every woman here is extraordinary.
This course, is shorthand, for coming alive in your erotic body. We went from zero to every woman here completely turned on, engaged, and creating.
—Jody
Anita has a gentle way of inviting the deepest, most sensual parts of us to flourish and express erotica as art.
She creates a safe and beautiful space for each of us in the class to connect with ourselves and each other. Erotica play was freeing in so many ways and so much fun. I left each class feeling lighter and giddy. I would take the class again and again.
—Fatima
Anita took me into that dreamy long forgotten place where imagination is born.
The act of writing from the loins launched me into a deep excavation of the connection between sexuality and creativity by spelunking right into the juiciness of arousal. And just like that, I found myself creatively reset. Part of me doesn’t want to recommend this course, the part that is selfishly attached to this experience being the best-kept secret of LA’s strange and fantastical writing world.
—Muna
This class has helped me embrace my erotic flavor and become more comfortable with my freakish ways. In one of my first pieces I wrote,
'The freak in me, wants to see the freak in you'
And that pointed me in a direction of deepening my relationship with my sexuality.
—S.D.
I’ve been really working to understand my sexuality, what it looks like, and what actually turns me on—and I got to do it through creative exploration.
I liked writing from the perspective of different genders and I felt so much turn on inside myself, without a partner present, without the desire to please anyone. It’s been fascinating how much opening I’ve received from this class.
I knew I had to do this class, because of how much resistance and fear I felt.
—JULES
Anita, you have an incredible ability to support women in touching their own gifts in a way that feels safe and sacred.
You then help us integrate this into our day-to-day lives. It feels like you are teaching a course in "everyday eroticism."
—KRISTEN
I’m grateful that this class exists.
I think that it’s going to allow more minds to open to the word “erotica”.
The world doesn't even understand how beautiful this can be.
—Mandi
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